Thursday, January 5, 2012

Word of the Year

Last year, I ditched the idea of a New Year's resolution and instead I embraced the idea of a "Word of the Year".

My word for 2011 was... choice.

In 2011 I choose to:
  • surround myself with positive people
  • be supportive rather than critical
  • yell (or not) at my children to hurry up (I try my best to not yell.) 
  • provide chooses for my children in their daily lives
  • scream (or not) at a certain pompous news anchor on TV (Can you guess who?) 
  • seek to understand my husband's perceptive as to why he works the insane hours that he does and be proud that he takes such ownership in his job
  • make my health a top priority and work out five-six days a week
  • eat healthy food and make healthy meals (or some-days NOT and get a McDonald's burger and sweet tea)
  • commit myself to a cause
  • laugh more
  • be confident with how I choose to parent and be comfortable with the fact that I make mistakes
  • let the little things slide (e.g., the dishes and laundry always lose to reading and playing with my kids)
  • blog... or not
  • read inspirational words every day
  • remember that a person's perceptive is critical to understanding and can change everything
  • bloom where I am planted 
  • be positive  
  • be okay with the fact that I can not please everyone
  • find opportunity in struggle
  • be happy (sometimes I choose, and it is okay that I do, to be angry, disappointed or frustrated)
  • remember it is MY choice and only I can give power to someone else or to negativity.

Through-out the year my choices have become wiser and easier to make. I have learned that the key to living a happy life is choosing one.

I have also humbled myself. Being happy isn't always easy, nor is being optimistic. Learning to live a life of optimism is a lifestyle commitment. I realize now, more than ever, that I will be fine tuning my choices for the rest of my days.

With all of this being said, 2011 is behind us. It's a new year that will be filled with new possibilities and opportunities.

So I have choosen a new word and I am sure that you can guess what my word might be...

Did you guess?





















Yeap. Gratitude.





I hope to be more grateful each day. This blog and my Facebook page are helping me...


What is your word?